Sweet ‘I Miss You’ Texts To Send Your Boyfriend

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Trying to come up with some sweet I miss you texts to send your boyfriend, but wondering if it’s OK to let him know you miss him?

I grappled with the same dilemma for many years, until I came to realize that when the feeling is mutual, you should definitely text your boyfriend you miss him once in a while, if you genuinely feel the urge. After all, this is the 21st century, and thankfully, those silly misogynistic old-school dating rules no longer apply.

If you’re a fan of King of Queens, you may recall the episode where Carrie is sad because her husband Doug admits that he doesn’t think about her much while he’s at work. She tells him that she thinks about him often while she’s in the office, despite her hectic schedule, and wants the same kind of devotion from him. Doug (being Doug) didn’t understand how important it was to let Carrie know he thinks about her when they’re apart.

This raises an interesting question: how important is it that we think about our partner when we’re away from them? And how important is it that we let them know by sending I miss you texts?

In King of Queens, Doug mishandled the situation to comic effect when he tries to raise his wife’s spirits by telephoning her to tell her he’s thinking of her while delivering packages at work. As she sits through an important job interview listening to him drone on about how he’s thinking of her, she hears a screech, a scream – and a crash! Oh, Doug.

The question is, do guys like I miss you texts? The question is, do you? Of course you do! Whether you send an I miss you text to him or leave him a sexy voice mail letting him know just how eager you are to see him, telling your partner that you’re thinking of them when you’re apart for long periods of time is super important because it makes them feel good, and it reminds them of your love for them.

When inspiration strikes, don’t hesitate to send him a text saying “I miss you”. When you’re in a relationship, sometimes it’s important to open yourself up to being vulnerable! These texts will let him know how much he means to you, and you’ll strengthen the bonds that exist between the two of you. This is an important step in creating a more conscious relationship with your boyfriend.

Unlike Doug Heffernan, though, you should be sending I miss you texts to your boyfriend when you’re not behind the wheel (or in an important meeting)!

Wondering how to let him know you’re thinking of him? Here are a few great I miss you texts to send your boyfriend:

“I had the best time with you last night”
This is one of the greatest missing you texts for him. If you spent the night with your partner, why don’t you let them know during the day that you enjoyed it? Especially if you both had to rush off to work in the morning with nothing more than a peck on the cheek and a “have fun today!”. This I miss you text is short, simple and sexy.

“You mean the world to me!”
Your man is at work, which probably means he’s somewhere he doesn’t want to be. Maybe he’s having a really bad day. Perhaps the printer got jammed, someone’s spilled coffee over him and his boss is demanding that he works an extra hour today.

If you send him a simple text such as “you mean the world to me!” you’re going to raise his spirits and brighten his entire day. Just those few words can put your man into a super fab state of mind. If you’re looking for a sweet text message to send your boyfriend, this is a great one. Go on, make him feel good today.

“I miss you.”
Three words. So simple, yet one of the more powerful messages to send your boyfriend when you miss him.

“I’ve been thinking of you all day.”
When your man is at work, he doesn’t know that you’ve been thinking about him. He doesn’t know what you’ve been up to. So let him know. Make him smile by telling him that you can’t get him out of your head. Make him feel warm and appreciated.

“Get ready for something special tonight…”
Let him know you’re excited to see him again and you want to do something with him. Not tomorrow, not next week; you want to do something with him tonight. This is also one of our favorite sexy text messages to send him!


“Hope you’re having a great day!”
He might not be having a great day; in fact, he might be having a downright nightmare. But you’ve just gone and amped his day up a few notches with this text to let him know you’re thinking of him. It’s a sweet thing to say to a man and reminds him that his world is so much better now that you’re in it.

“Thank you for being you.”
Guys might seem like they can handle anything. They might appear to be invincible and impenetrable. Situations just don’t seem to faze them, and when they suffer a setback they get right back on the horse and start all over again. But guys are as vulnerable as we are, and they have as many self-doubts as we do. Your man probably doesn’t know how great he is, and what he means to you. So tell him you love him just the way he is right now and that you wouldn’t change a thing about him. He’s awesome.

“The best part of my day is you.”
Give him something to look forward to when he gets out of work… seeing you and making you smile.

Moral of the story? Don’t try to play it cool when you really want to send I miss you texts to your boyfriend! Reach out and text him from time to time… just because.

Now that you’ve told him you miss him, you may want to spice things up a bit. Here’s a few more tips to get him really excited to see you… 😉

— What You Can Do TONIGHT To Create Sexual Tension
— How To Blow His Mind With Sexy Voice Messages
— Haven’t Met Yet? How To Turn Up The Heat Before You Meet

Read those posts, and you’ll be a seduction pro in no time! 💋


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Claudia is the creator of Text Weapon, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She is passionate about modern communication and loves helping people improve their relationships through creative texting. To read more by Claudia, visit Text Weapon . Don't forget to signup for the FREE Texting Club trial with over 300 messages. You can also hit her up on Twitter .

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